I used to wake up feeling like the world’s unofficial guardian, hyper‑aware of every noise, every email, every notification, every food choice, every meow from my cats. My constant worry leaked into work, parenting my daughter, money fears, even breathing felt like a risk assessment. I needed to do something about everything and everyone.
Have you ever wondered why you keep repeating the same mistakes, despite promising yourself you’d never do that again? Well, I have. Mind blankness, awkward oversharing, and embarrassing boundary-crossing are signs your brain just went offline again.
Because I don’t waste time debating if I “feel like it,” I just get to work. I finish things. I post regularly. I write like a maniac. I put myself in uncomfortable situations (casting calls, new languages, bad lighting, complicated roles, burnt food) because I’m not led by what I like.
Getting to know your own mind is not just personal growth, it’s your greatest adventure. So, buckle up, because the journey inward is far more exciting than any Netflix series (and infinitely more rewarding!).
In the end, understanding that many choices are illusions is your first step towards real freedom. Laugh about it, get slightly uncomfortable, and remember: living consciously is far more rebellious and satisfying than following the crowd.
One of the most significant revelations in my life was realizing that purpose transforms pain into power. When life becomes challenging, it’s easy to fall into survival mode. But survival is not thriving. Purpose is thriving.
And as I evolve, I notice the shift in my artistry. I no longer want to portray only broken women who wait to be saved. I want to play women who save themselves. Women whose vulnerable strength lives in their silence, their rage, their humor, their stillness.
“Most philosophical problems are to be solved by getting rid of them, by coming to the point where you see that such questions as “Why this universe?” are a kind of intellectual neurosis, a misuse of words…”
Be sensible in sharing, and the Universe will shoot better stories at you. Share the good, the pleasant, give plenty of success accounts and stop blurting out negativity. Stop encouraging gossip, fear and panic. Put your own fears to rest first, and the world will become a better place. Speak less words and you’ll lie less.
Stop gossiping today. Focus and meditate all the time. Try self-help books and yoga classes to discover your true potential. Good and bad are just interpretations of reality, so live your life in your own flow, not according to what others tell you. See what others see in you and slow down. Trust everyone and everything. Drive mindfully. Set goals and don’t achieve them.
